She remembered who she was and the game changed!!

Everyone talks about the journey, that inward path we take alone. I used to wonder what this journey was really about. I thought it was just about having more experiences and learning along the way. I often asked myself, where would it lead me? Did I have a destination in mind?

When it all began, I had no answers. But now, after eight years, things are much clearer. Over this time, I’ve not only experienced and learned but transformed those questions into my reasons for healing. I’ve reached a point where everything—the loss, the lessons, the pain, and the darkness—makes sense.

I understand that not everyone will grasp or appreciate this, and that's okay. I won't change who I am now to accommodate changes that someone else is not ready to make!

I am happy. (and sometimes happiness does not look like laughter and giggles, its serene and calm too!!) I’m becoming the person I need, the person I’ve always envisioned. I realize now that the one I was waiting for to come and rescue me was myself all along. And so it continues...

Here’s what I learnt on my journey of healing and becoming:

❤️ You will have a lot of reasons to stop, there will be self-doubt - but count on that one reason you began.

❤️ Most people will not appreciate or understand your journey - but remember, it's not theirs to understand in the first place.

❤️ It will be easier to slip, but trust me, the reward at the end is much sweeter.

❤️ When you are ready, the universe will guide you - so dont lose faith and dont force the process.

❤️ There will be low days and there will be highs, but dont attach yourself to either. Feelings are fleeting!

❤️ Your people will be a great support - so keep them close. 

❤️ Don't rush anything - sit with what you feel, accept it, embrace it and it will become you - don't fight it. (its ok to cry!)

❤️ Be kind to yourself - don't punish you, you are already going through so much!! You need you to love you!

❤️ Healing does NOT mean that people and things won't hurt you anymore. 

❤️ LET GO!! Dont hold on to what you were and who you were (the tears, the anger, the hurt, the past, let it all go!!)

It's not easy, it will take time but its totally worth it!! 

Sending faith and energy to all those who are on their journeys. 

Pic: A happy me with a happy dog, in my happy place : )